And because a girl’s gotta have some fun, I thought I’d share something special but nonetheless very interesting I came across today.
Xdress lingerie for men. What makes a man not wear silk underwear? What makes a woman feel attracted to a man wearing white cotton lingerie? Is it that gay-myth making men run like chased from some ugly nightmare when talking lace or silk lingerie for men? I may be asking too many questions but that’s because I really want to hear your side of the story! Don’t be shy, I wasn’t when I posted this! (xdress via trendygirl)
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I like silk boxers on men, but this… its a bit too “Priscilla Queen of the Desert” for me.
The first thing that came to my mind was my cousin Cyril.He was into cross dressing.I think he’d go ga ga for that purple frilly number eventhough I know Gladys his wife would insist on the pink one.
The silky boxer shorts are quite tittilating!The right bulges in all the right places!
These undies look fun anyway so why not.Just avoid having an accident and ending up unconcious at the hospital and surpising everyone when they undress you!
Ellington: I adore “Priscilla Queen of the Desert”! One of the most joyful and positive movies ever! I own it just to play it sometimes when needed…..this underwear don’t give me the hots but it does to my beloved gay friend! He loves it….I don’t but nevertheless we have fun about these…..
After all its o.k for Sarah Jessica Parker to wear mens Y fronts on TV. And lets face it Womens Boxers are just mens underwear in pastel shades.
I love frillies and proud of it. Priscilla is a great film.
PS Not gay but hate mens undies
hahahaha Dame Edna I won’t even begin to think about the paramedics faces when they’d see something like this!!!!
Adriana I was counting on your friend’s opinion for a gay point of view! And seems I was right, they’re fun, and you don’t have to be gay to admit it!
Karl, thanks for stopping by! As for womens boxers – I really love them! as pajamas! We borrowed some heavy pieces from the men’s wardrobe – the trousers and the boxers! Great inventions with or without frillies!
hey im gay and woman dont under stand what sum men go threw i THink it hot wen a man wears womans under wear
Hey, I am a happily married man, with no want to be gay, but I would love to wear any of those pieces for my wife, its just that she would not go for it. I have tried on her undies before and I just love to wear pantyhose, so I hope this catches on and she lets me get into it.
Silk undies are the best and most amazing feeling.
I’m a hetero guy with a beautiful wife but she doesn’t go for it at all.
Why shouldn’t guys be able to wear soft silky clothes when wmoen wears t-shirts and jeans?
I love sexy underwear. But why is it so hard for women to except that. My wife despises it she says that its a major turn off for her. I have tried to talk to her about it and evan ignoreing it to see if its a phase but I always come back to wanting to wear it. Can some one give some advice
Awww, poor guys……sorry, not in my bed either….grrrr…
Oh well, men have most of it all anyway… power wise and now they want to wear women’s undies too. ;)
Sorry Buck and John but I myself do not find it attractive when men wear obviously feminine undergarments. Its rather off putting to me intellectually and sexually.
As I said silk boxers are nice, I like that, but when you start wanting to wear lace and frills I cannot abide that, I personally find it too effete.
Okay, so coming from a flamyboyant (and proud) gay man, these undies are AMAZING!! I’ve used this site, and it’s sister site bodyaware.com and I can tell everyone from personal experiene how phenomenal they are! As far as underwear being definitively masculine or feminine, those concepts are what’s determined by society, and are totally subject to interpretation. If you like silk, lace, thongs, whatever, go for it! I understand if wives have a difficult time accepting and understanding it, but my advice is to atleast attempt to understand, or it can be damaging! Anyway, bottom line; fabulous undies!! :)
Good for you Kaleb, being a flamboyantly gay man( your words) it’s non too surprising that you like wearing under ware like this.
Understanding works both ways, and so can the damaging effects and your summation of what is considered masculine or feminine is far too simply put. It goes far deeper than that. It is not simply a societal expression it is also intrinsically innate as is what makes someone straight or gay.
If a man wishes to wear undergarments like that, he can, but I would not be dating, or marrying him. As I said I find it too effete and sexually and intellectually off putting.
I am a very happily married straight man. I am a weightlifter and biker. I buy itmes from Bodyaware. My wife absolutely loves when I wear the sleek tactile thongs and fitted underwear. It drives her crazy in bed when I wear the stretchy soft mesh bodysuit. She absolutely cannot keep her hands off me.
I also shave my legs, which she loves madly. women love to glide along slinky smooth legs as much as Men do.
Beleive me – they do. It’s not a gay thing, it is a sensual thing.
Start slowly with a pair of soft nylon or spandex undies (no they don’t have to be frilly) and see how she likes it and then for a special treat buy a mesh boysuit from bodyaware (the only ones I know that sell one) and build her up for a surprise. Bring some scented oil and candles.
Men, you will be absolutely amazed at how turned and wild on your woman will be when she finds you are doing this for her and you are exploring the fringe areas in sexuality.
I think it about time. Men should be able to wear what they want, just as women should be able to wear what they want.
If any women complains, then maybe they should stop wearing our clothes. Plain and simple.
As for married men, if your wife is restricting your basic freedoms, then maybe you should have made a wiser decision with who your decide to marry. She did not have any issues with your clothing when you started going out with her, did she?
What gives her the authority to change it after you get married?
Marriage is compromise, but if your the only one compromising and she is the only one who gets to dress you; then it isn’t husband and wife, it’s mother and son.
Grow some balls and take charge in the household. Demand some basic freedom. If she withholds sex, wait till she’s sleep and jizz on her face.
Disclaimer: I am a single wealthy business man with two businesses. The opinions expressed above are my own. If you have any of the problems expressed above, it is probably best you get a relationship councilor to sort out your differences.
I wear my wives panties, garters and stockings and she has no idea. I like the feel and I like how it makes me feel sexy. Im not gay or anything and I dont wear bra’s or her clothes just the undergarments. say what you like but unless you try it you dont know or understand the sexual feeling.
While I don’t necessarily approve of Ellington’s comments, I also can’t help but empathize. I wear lingerie, and at first my fiancée’s, but out of respect have bought my own…
What I think we men need to consider is that women can feel that men wearing women’s lingerie (as opposed to men’s sexy ‘lingerie’) can be construed as an affront to their own sense of femininity. Women already have to fight for so much in their lives, to gain that sense of equality, that to have the very symbol of their womanhood (sorry, but today still, a bra is undeniably female, as are other items such as garters, corsets etc.) ‘borrowed’ by a man (whom they already see as having everything handed to them on a silver platter due to the mere fact that they’re MEN)… well, it can be upsetting.
My fiancée quite accurately described her feelings: that she thought maybe I didn’t need her or want her, seeing as I’m quite happy in lingerie. She’s wrong of course, but I can’t convince her of it. I do understand how she may feel like the third wheel somehow – I’m a man, but I also get some form of womanhood through ‘wearing’. But the fact is I don’t. No matter what, I’m nevertheless a MAN and no amount of lingerie will ever render a woman obsolete.
Hello Winterwhite, when stating a position in an argument or discussion it is fine to either agree or disagree. That I can accept,
but to say that you do not approve of my comments is a tad arrogant.
And why may I ask are my comments the only ones singled out?
Other than that I will say that what you stated was eloquently and thoughtfully said.
As I said before men can and may wear what they wish but I would not want to either date nor marry a man who has a predilection for wearing women’s undergarments. Especially if he was “borrowing” mine, and kept it a secret. I still find it too effete for my taste and sensibilities and do not find it sexually attractive.
Ellington, you are absolutely right, and I apologize for the poor choice of words – my aproval or not is irrelevant and inappropriate. Please forgive and thank you for pointing it out. As to having felt singled-out, I meant nothing by it. You seemed to be the first/only woman among the commenters to express a personal distaste for this matter, so I used your name as the starting point. In hindsight, when combined with the clumsy word choice, I can see how it could have been taken badly. Please don’t and accept again my apology for any misunderstanding.
Many thanks for your understanding and willingness to correct my error.
Hello,Winterwhite, I accept your apology and to this I say pax.
I hope that you and your fiancee have many wonderful and happy times together now and always.
: )
i love to wear my girly pantys also stockings basc bra even (mini dress at home only) heels etc my wife loves it so if it feels nice do it
Why do women like wearing “soft” under things ? I’ve been told “Cause it makes me feel sexy all under”, and just “It feels good”. I guess these are sensations women would prefer to deny their “masculine men”. Is it fear of competition? She has enough female competitors, now she has to compete with a boyfriend/husband who wants to be viewed as sexy and sexual. Most women would be surprised to find out just what their manly-man is wearing under that shining armor. Just because we wear silk, doesn’t mean we can’t be as rough as you like it. For those of you who think it’s and odd mix of muscle and lace, I’m sure there are plenty of “whitey-tighties” out there just for you.
Hey! I love to wear sexy underwear! It enhances how I feel about myself and really turns up the heat. I don’t wear it all the time, but I have the whole she-bang (literally!) garter belts, seamed stockings, heels. BTW-my partner wears boxer briefs (I love it!)
I am a male with varied tastes and I love these panties made for men from this company. I own several pairs in different styles and colors. They fit perfectly. My lovers-male and female-find it an adventure to see what I’m wearing and I gladly show them off. I always look forward to seeing what new products they have for sale. Males can wear pretty things too and still be masculine.
My bf Tom wears lacy panties and thongs that we pick out together at VS. He likes the feel, i think it’s pretty, and we both get turned on when we go out in public together when he is “properly” dressed. The girls at VS really like helping us and are supportive of our needs and desires when we shop.
It’s very simple really, panties are much more comfortable than underpants and that is the only reason that I wear them. I only have one make, Bali Skimp Scamp and they are so comfortable I don’t realize I am wearing them. I just wish they would take off the picot elastic and put on some plain elastic. Some male looking print would be good too. I can wear them all day without having to adjust the equipment, I am cupped in place all day. I have just started wearing them two months ago and I will never go back to the torture devices that are called underpants.
I have ordered from this specific site (www.XDress.com) several times and must say they are awesome! Huge range, great quality and so comfortable.
make my wife jealous, YES !!!
We love female panties. Pat has been crossdressing for years, at first I didn’t approve at all. Then I tried making love while we were both dressed in matching lingerie I bought for the two of us. Let me tell you girls and guys something, our love making had never been better! Our relationship has progressed and now Pat is more femme and wears panties 24/7 and is in lingerie every minute he can be. He even wears fem tops, bras, and suck beneath his everyday wear all the time, sometimes noticable sometimes not but when it is noticed we have had both positive and negative comments and in the lingerie shopd the girls working have always been most supportive and helpul fitting Pat. Its the modern thing to do I guess. If I can wear mens clothes with out anyone giving it a second thought then why shouldnt my hubby be accepted feeling and looking as pretty as he and I would like him too.
I love the lace, stockings. I love wearing panties all day. I do wish the offered more men’s cut panties in cotton, with fem designs. Having been in a soldier in dessert storm, I got a few laughs from the guys when they seen my bikini undies. But they never bothered me. I am also Native American, much of the beadwork done on a warriors clothes were of flowers. It was a depiction of what was cherished by him. His other half, his wife mother sister or his feminine side, these are all things worth defending and being proud of. We are half our mother and father logically, emotionally, genetically and spiritually. we need to live in balance, accepting that both genders can be, the other. Its not just about wearing panties. Its about being in touch with yourself, and those you love at the same time. Well in my opinion anyway. Just wanted to throw my 2 cents in, thanks for listening to me.
I think this sort of thing is just great. Not only do I find men in women’s lingerie quite attractive (as a hetero female :P) but I think they should be equally as accepted wearing women’s clothes as us girls are wearing men’s. I hope this becomes more acceptable in society in the future <3
I LOVE my man in panties and stockings!! drives me wild…
I was the one that convinced him to try them on for me ‘just to see what they look like’ ;) and when he saw my reaction he was convinced that I REALLY liked it an now he wears them when we are up for some hot sex! I just think that the male parts are sexy and deserve to be show cased in satin or whatever looks good! Women that find lingerie on men a threat need to get a grip! :) It looks awesome!¬
Hi I’m quite a toned guy, remove all my body hair…I love wearing knickers (panties), stockings,nighties etc…lucky for me my Wife loves it too.
She says it’s so tactile n sexy!
I love wearing my knickers under my jeans in public too!
Jason
‘I love wearing knickers (panties), stockings,nighties etc…lucky for me my Wife loves it too.
She says it’s so tactile n sexy!
This is what I mean! it does look good on men and is so sensual to be touched while wearing gorgeous material :)
I am so happy for you Jason that ur wife likes u in lingerie, she sounds like a wonderful lady….give her a hug from me.
I dont have anyone to talk to about this fetish and only wish I could meet ladies like myself and ur wife.
It should not be unnatural for men to wear sexy silk panties if they fell good and they do,and i just love how sexy they look, i love things like these
Am I the only one who thinks most of the previous posts were written by the same person?
just saying…
mdinah
yes, you are :)
never thought so many straight men were so keen to talk about their undies in the web.
good to know.
@mdhinah – Jade is actually right, you know? I was as surprised as you are, to be honest! I never knew such a topic would touch so many people! Like you say, straight (or not so straight) men and women also talking about their men?! I may develop that again some day, what do you say?
@and you, Jade? should be explore more about this issue?
This article has been accumulating comments for three years. For that much time the response isn’t so big. Anyway, thanks to all the contributors. @Roger: respect! It is very much about balance. To the women who find it intellectually distasteful, please think about it some more. Lots of boys growing up these days have their balls in a vice of guilt because they’re constantly being told how evil men are. Equality has to grow on both sides of the gender divide. And clothing choice is a big inequality in our society. There really are no female cross-dressers, because EVERYTHING is allowed a woman in a social context. This wasn’t always the case. Think about how the first women wearing trousers must’ve been reviled.
And to identify, I’m straight, male, married, with children. I’ve been drawn to women’s clothing since I was old enough to know there was a difference. Underwear is the easiest, because it can be done sort of in secret (beware though, it can get ugly if discovered… I lost a job once after I was found out and the rumors started flying), but I’d really like to see men being socially allowed to wear skirts. In my single, care-free days, I wore them regularly and loved it.
brettman, EVERYTHING is allowed a woman in a social context you say? That is a good point, maybe women easier adjust?
I think straight males are very scared their friends would see them as a “p*ssy” or if they only knew about their preferences. Maybe that has to change first? I am afraid that is very long road…..
brettman, sorry I see you know that yet. I am also sorry that you lost job because of your love for women clothing. This discussion should be held on a forum or blog for males but I guess that is not going to happen either.
I often wonder why straight males dress up like women for fun and fool around getting drunk. Maybe deep in their heart they have a secret wish?
I love wearing lingerie…keep in shape & smooth…str8 & married!
i love wearing lingerie and i like women my head is girl and my body man.
straight male…just love the feel of smooth silk, rayon etc and the electric touch of my wife !
i love wearing my wife’s lingerie! my wife knows .. very exciting
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